Affirmation: I am free to make my own decisions.

Affirmation: I am free to make my own decisions.

Check out this week’s affirmation on making your own decisions. Affirmation: I am free to make my own decisions.

Decision-making is about problem-solving in the dual sense that the decision you are trying to make is a solution to an emotional or practical problem, and the process itself is a problem-solving exercise.

Affirmation: I am free to make my own decisions.

My decisions are mine to make. I am the one in control of my life. I exercise that control by making decisions each day. Affirmation: I am free to make my own decisions.

I reject the idea of someone else guiding my life. I allow others to make their own decisions, and I take responsibility for making mine.

There might be people in my life that want to make my decisions for me. But I am firm in telling them that I choose to make my own decisions.

I might ask for advice when I need it, but I ultimately decide which course of action I plan to take. Affirmation: I am free to make my own decisions.

I am free of the need for approval from others. I avoid even trying to find out what others might think of my decisions. Whatever I decide is fine by me, and I am the one whose approval matters.

I use my experience and my best judgement to make the wisest decisions I can. If I am wrong, I can accept that. I am just more determined to make a better decision next time.

I live my life as I choose and make my own decisions. Affirmation: I am free to make my own decisions.

Today, I make the best choices I can. I take responsibility for all my decisions. I take control of my life by exercising my power of choice.

Self-Reflection Questions: Affirmation: I am free to make my own decisions.

1. Is there anyone that wants to control my life? Who? Why? How do I feel about that?

2. What do I need to make a decision about? Why am I waiting?

3. When do I allow others to make decisions for me? Why am I hesitant to take responsibility for my life?

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Affirmation: Authenticity defines my character.

Affirmation: Authenticity defines my character.

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Being your authentic self can feel risky now in our screen-obsessed world. We’re just trying to fit in, be liked, and be accepted by other human beings.

And as a result, the image we present (on our social media profiles and IRL) have become mere presentations of who we think we should be and not reflections of who we really are.

So how do we take off the mask we’ve been wearing and start to live a life of authenticity?

Affirmation: Authenticity defines my character.

In a world full of masks and imitation, I celebrate my true identity. I am proud to share it with others. It is the formula for constantly being at peace with my reality.

My life today represents my unique journey. I embrace each part of my story with pride. I am ready to tell the truth about my life to anyone who asks. There is always a part of my story that has the potential to positively influence someone else.

Being a people pleaser brings more sadness than joy. Whenever my actions or words are inauthentic, I feel unsettled in my soul. Affirmation: Authenticity defines my character.

My sense of purpose is important to me. It comes from my own mission as opposed to the motive of others. I refuse to let anyone tell me how to be. My worth is based on how I view myself and the depth of my potential.

When someone meets me for the first time, I show them who I really am. It makes little difference whether they like what they see or hear.

The sound of my voice and the face of my actions represent what I hold firm. Popularity holds little value to me. I prefer to be popular for being true to myself. When I base my actions on positive virtues, I automatically attract positive energy.

Today, when I look in the mirror, I see someone who is proud of their reflection. It is my view of myself that matters most. I dwell at peace in my identity because it is what makes me uniquely me.

  1. Where do the greatest pressures to impress usually come from?
  2. How do I ensure that I stay true to myself?
  3. What three things best define my authentic character?

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Affirmation: Every day I am getting better at what I do.

Affirmation: Every day I am getting better at what I do.

Check out this week’s affirmation: I am getting better

We all want to be our best, but many people wonder if it’s actually possible to become a better person once you’re an adult. The answer is a resounding yes. There are always ways to improve yourself. Affirmation: Every day I am getting better at what I do.

Affirmation: Every day I am getting better at what I do.

I approach each day with the objective of improvement. I like to improve at everything I do. I figure if I am going to spend the time anyway, I am going to make the effort to become better.

If I constantly improve each aspect of my life, my life can only improve overall.

I avoid being obsessive when it comes to improvement. I simply pay attention to what I am doing at any moment and do it as well as I can. This is easy for me to do.

I feel more relaxed and at ease when I put my full attention on the task in front of me. Using my full attention maximizes my results.

I enjoy my life more, because I am making progress each day. I am literally getting better at everything I do each and every day.

I am happy and satisfied when I make progress each day. The more progress I make, the better I feel. The better I feel, the more I want to improve.

Today, I am looking forward to making several small improvements. These improvements are happening in my work, relationships, hobbies, diet and exercise program, and everything else I do.

Self-Reflection Questions: I am getting better

  1. In what areas of my life have I failed to make progress? Why? What can I do to begin making small improvements in those areas?
  2. In what areas of my life do I seem to continue to make progress? Why am I improving?
  3. What would my life look like in six months if I improved each day in all the relevant areas of my life?

I am getting better

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Affirmation: My skills are valuable.

Affirmation: My skills are valuable.

Check out this week’s affirmation on the value of your personal skills My skills are valuable.

A skill is an ability to do something. You will feel more confident when you are doing things you are already skilled at.

My skills are valuable.

I stay relevant and adapt to change. My skill set prepares me for success. My skills are valuable.

I have skills that employers are looking for. I am a high performer who can contribute to many organizations in different ways. I can deal with any job insecurity and advance my career.

I communicate effectively. I speak clearly and respectfully. I listen closely to what my boss and coworkers have to say. I share constructive feedback. I discuss sensitive subjects face to face. I think about the purpose behind my communications.

I demonstrate team spirit and leadership. I collaborate with others and celebrate group victories. I provide a positive role model.

I take initiative. I go beyond my job description. My skills are valuable.

I stay calm under pressure, develop solutions, and persevere through obstacles. I identify challenges and evaluate my options.

I adjust my plans so I can stay on track through budget cuts or network crashes. I use setbacks as opportunities to grow.

I master technology and continue learning. I take online courses. I attend conferences and training events. I join professional associations and subscribe to industry publications.

I acquire knowledge and skills that help me to reach my goals.

Today, I take charge of my career path even in uncertain times. I strengthen my skills and keep them up to date. My skills are valuable.

Self-Reflection Questions:

  1. What is one new skill I want to develop?
  2. How can my hobbies help me to strengthen my job skills?
  3. How can I pursue opportunities for growth in my current job?

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Affirmation: I spread good energy wherever I go.

Affirmation: I spread good energy wherever I go.

Check out this week’s affirmation on positive energy

Staying positive can be tough. Positivity can start to wain when you are bombarded with a succession of negativity, failures, disappointment and heartbreak.

Every challenge you face withdraws from your energy, resilience and a little bit of your faith. Once your positive energy is depleted, pessimism slowly begins to creep in and take hold.

Affirmation: I spread good energy wherever I go.

There are many reasons to have a good spirit. I constantly identify things to be joyous about. This focus allows me to maintain a positive attitude.

Having life is something worth celebrating. Each morning when I wake up, I give thanks for the chance to experience this beautiful world. That blessing fills me with a new lease on life.

I smile and share good cheer with each person who I encounter.

My work colleagues are my teammates, so I treat them kindly. Bringing them morning coffee is a simple way to show them my appreciation for their work.

When I extend kindness at work, it creates a positive work environment. I am a part of successful projects because I encourage respectful discourse. When someone presents an idea,

I listen to it with openness and consideration.

Strangers deserve the same courtesy as my friends and family. I say good morning to each person who I pass on my daily commute.

Sharing a smile with another person spreads joy. A natural transmission of positive energy moves from one person to the next.

Small gestures such as this have a big impact on the world.

Today, the world around me smiles because I smile at it each chance that I get. I believe in getting back whatever I put out.

Spreading good energy makes the world a happier place. I choose to be an agent of positivity.

Self-Reflection Questions:

  1. What are some of the things that make me happy?
  2. How do I drive a positive outcome from a tense situation at work?
  3. Which of my friends give me the greatest joy?

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Affirmation: I embrace peace

Affirmation: I embrace peace

Check out this week’s affirmation: I embrace peace

Everything about modern society feels like an obstacle to experiencing peace of mind. But there are ways to find and maintain inner peace

Affirmation: I embrace peace.

I feel calm and comfortable when I welcome peace into my life.

I extend forgiveness. I let go of resentments and disappointments as I remember that I need second chances too.

I practice gratitude. Thinking about my blessings lifts my spirits and gives me energy. I appreciate the kindness of others and experience more harmony in my life.

I face challenges rather than trying to avoid them. I devote my time and energy to figuring out solutions. I replace anxiety with confidence. I show myself that I am capable and strong.

I do one thing at a time. I slow down and give my full attention to my current task. The quality of my work increases, and my activities become more satisfying.

I manage stress. I take breaks during the day, exercise regularly, and think positive.

I monitor my media consumption. I choose to get information from sources that are responsible and constructive. I fill my leisure time with hobbies and socializing rather than watching TV.

I spend time outdoors. Communing with nature awakens my senses and stills my thoughts. I feel part of something larger than myself.

I simplify my life. I shop less and give away possessions that I rarely use. I take control of my schedule, so I can spend more time on my personal priorities. I develop efficient routines and turn off my phone for a few hours each day.

Today, I create more moments of peace for myself and others. I am joyful and serene.

Self-Reflection Questions:

  1. Why is it important to make peace of mind a priority?
  2. What is the relationship between peace and patience?
  3. How can I use my breath to calm my thoughts?

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