Affirmation: I spread good energy wherever I go.

Affirmation: I spread good energy wherever I go.

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Staying positive can be tough. Positivity can start to wain when you are bombarded with a succession of negativity, failures, disappointment and heartbreak.

Every challenge you face withdraws from your energy, resilience and a little bit of your faith. Once your positive energy is depleted, pessimism slowly begins to creep in and take hold.

Affirmation: I spread good energy wherever I go.

There are many reasons to have a good spirit. I constantly identify things to be joyous about. This focus allows me to maintain a positive attitude.

Having life is something worth celebrating. Each morning when I wake up, I give thanks for the chance to experience this beautiful world. That blessing fills me with a new lease on life.

I smile and share good cheer with each person who I encounter.

My work colleagues are my teammates, so I treat them kindly. Bringing them morning coffee is a simple way to show them my appreciation for their work.

When I extend kindness at work, it creates a positive work environment. I am a part of successful projects because I encourage respectful discourse. When someone presents an idea,

I listen to it with openness and consideration.

Strangers deserve the same courtesy as my friends and family. I say good morning to each person who I pass on my daily commute.

Sharing a smile with another person spreads joy. A natural transmission of positive energy moves from one person to the next.

Small gestures such as this have a big impact on the world.

Today, the world around me smiles because I smile at it each chance that I get. I believe in getting back whatever I put out.

Spreading good energy makes the world a happier place. I choose to be an agent of positivity.

Self-Reflection Questions:

  1. What are some of the things that make me happy?
  2. How do I drive a positive outcome from a tense situation at work?
  3. Which of my friends give me the greatest joy?

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5 Methods to Simplify Your Life

5 Methods to Simplify Your Life

5 Methods to Simplify Your Life

We only have so much room in our lives. Whether it is our mental space, physical space, or calendar space, everything we do, everything we buy, and everyone we spend time with takes up this space.

When you simplify your life, you will have more time, space, and energy to do the things you actually want to do!

1. Declutter your house. The environment you spend time in has an effect on how you feel, both physically and psychologically. If you’re wasting time looking for misplaced items or feeling overwhelmed when you open a cupboard, a change is in order.

Once you start to organize your belongings, you’ll start to feel more productive and energetic.

Start with one room and then ask yourself whether you feel better or not.

2. Lose those negative mental habits. Negative mental activities, such as feeling sorry for yourself or dwelling on the past, can carry a lot of psychological weight and leave you feeling drained.

You can clear this mental clutter by focusing on healthier thoughts, for example, gratitude, self-compassion and realistic self-talk.

If you catch yourself thinking negatively, stop yourself by taking a deep breath and reminding yourself that it isn’t helpful. Then, switch your thoughts to something that makes you feel happier.

As you practice this technique, it becomes easier and easier until focusing on the positive becomes a habit.

3. Cut out toxic people. We all have that friend or family member who only sees problems and never any solution. These negative people can take up valuable space in your life.

Avoid cutting people out of your life just because they are going through a tough time. However, it is important to set boundaries too.

Even if you don’t spend too much time together, if the time you do spend together leaves you feeling exhausted, then sometimes the best thing to do for your own mental health is to sever your ties.

4. Take control of your money. When you don’t control your money, your money begins to control you, instead. When that happens, it takes up too much space in your life.

Make the decision to take charge of your finances, create a budget, and stick to it. Once you have done this, making future financial decisions will be much simpler, and you won’t be spending as much time and energy worrying about your money.

5. Prioritize your time. Time is your most valuable resource. When you consider how much of your time you spend complaining, scrolling through social media, or just waiting for something to happen, you’ll find that you’ve been wasting many precious moments.

Instead of letting timewasters take up your space, make a schedule and do the things that matter most to you!

Make time for yourself to go for a walk, play with your children, or watch the sunset. Many simple things in life make up some of our most valuable moments. Don’t let the clutter cut these precious experiences out of your life!

Life can be complicated at times, and while it may feel as though simplifying things is overwhelming, the effort to make these changes will be well worth it.

Start off by subtracting one negative thing from your life each day. Get rid of some stuff you no longer need, try to clear some mental space, and make a little room in your calendar for yourself.

As your life becomes simpler, you won’t have as many stresses, and you’ll find yourself enjoying your life again – a joy that you may have lost little by little as your life got more and more complicated.

5 Methods to Simplify Your Life. Simplify your life and bring back your joy!

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Affirmation: I embrace peace

Affirmation: I embrace peace

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Everything about modern society feels like an obstacle to experiencing peace of mind. But there are ways to find and maintain inner peace

Affirmation: I embrace peace.

I feel calm and comfortable when I welcome peace into my life.

I extend forgiveness. I let go of resentments and disappointments as I remember that I need second chances too.

I practice gratitude. Thinking about my blessings lifts my spirits and gives me energy. I appreciate the kindness of others and experience more harmony in my life.

I face challenges rather than trying to avoid them. I devote my time and energy to figuring out solutions. I replace anxiety with confidence. I show myself that I am capable and strong.

I do one thing at a time. I slow down and give my full attention to my current task. The quality of my work increases, and my activities become more satisfying.

I manage stress. I take breaks during the day, exercise regularly, and think positive.

I monitor my media consumption. I choose to get information from sources that are responsible and constructive. I fill my leisure time with hobbies and socializing rather than watching TV.

I spend time outdoors. Communing with nature awakens my senses and stills my thoughts. I feel part of something larger than myself.

I simplify my life. I shop less and give away possessions that I rarely use. I take control of my schedule, so I can spend more time on my personal priorities. I develop efficient routines and turn off my phone for a few hours each day.

Today, I create more moments of peace for myself and others. I am joyful and serene.

Self-Reflection Questions:

  1. Why is it important to make peace of mind a priority?
  2. What is the relationship between peace and patience?
  3. How can I use my breath to calm my thoughts?

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Top 10 Differences Between Successful And Unsuccessful People

Top 10 Differences Between Successful And Unsuccessful People

Top 10 Differences Between Successful and Unsuccessful PeopleSuccessful People

Have you ever wondered what makes your most successful friend so successful? What about your least successful friend? What’s their problem? What’s the difference between those that thrive and those that struggle?

If you understand the differences, you can examine your own situation and gain insight into why you might not be as successful as you’d like to be. Successful People

See how successful people do things differently than unsuccessful people:

1. Their lives are defined by their goals. Unsuccessful people’s lives are defined by their fears. Most people live their life in a way that avoids their fears. Successful people make decisions based on accomplishing their goals, not avoiding their fears.

2. They apply their time toward long-term objectives. Unsuccessful people are motivated by day-to-day concerns. The average person is only concerned with making it through the next week. Successful people take action each day that will provide benefits months, years, or decades in the future. Successful People

3. They seek success. Unsuccessful people seek comfort and base their decisions accordingly. A successful person moves toward success, whether the route is comfortable or not.

4. They take responsibility. Unsuccessful people have an endless list of excuses for their mediocrity. Successful people assume responsibility for everything that goes wrong in their lives. When you take responsibility, you have the power to change your situation. Blaming others is a form of powerlessness.

5. They continuously improve their results. A successful person wants to be better than they were yesterday. Average people maintain average results and are satisfied with this level of performance. Successful People

6. They read books. Unsuccessful people gravitate toward TV and other non-value-added forms of entertainment. Reading the right books is one of the most effective ways of boosting your knowledge. Would you rather learn something new or waste your time?

7. They are comfortable with failure. Successful people might not like failure, but they can deal with it. Average people avoid failure at all costs. This is similar to the previous point on fear. An inability to deal with the fear of failure is one of the things that makes unsuccessful people unsuccessful.

8. They have a plan for the day. It’s not possible to get the most from each day unless you have a plan for it. Average people wake up and let the day decide for them what might happen. If you don’t plan your day, you’re avoiding success.

9. They surround themselves with the right people. Successful people spend time with others that help them to become better. This could be a mentor, someone they could potentially do business deals with, or simply someone they believe has the right connections. Successful People

10. They have positive, effective habits. Good brushing and flossing habits lead to healthy teeth. Good exercise and diet habits lead to health and fitness. Good success habits lead to high levels of success. What do your habits lead you towards?

As you can see, there are clear-cut differences between successful and unsuccessful people. How many of these items can you identify with? What changes would you like to make?

Which one you decide to be is up to you. Are you committed to progress or comfort? Do you have a plan for your time that maximizes your effectiveness, or do you like to fly by the seat of your pants?

The choice between success and mediocrity is up to you. Successful People

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5 Ways To Program Your Subconscious Mind

5 Ways To Program Your Subconscious Mind

It depends on whose numbers you want to believe, but roughly 95% of our behavior is beyond our conscious awareness. Your subconscious files away your memories, experiences, perceptions, and insights and maintains them far beyond the recollection of your conscious mind.

These past experiences and revelations have a tremendous impact on your beliefs, habits, and general behavior.

Programming the subconscious mind is a powerful tool for altering behavior!

Using these strategies will help you program your mind to benefit your mind, body, and soul:

1. Affirmations. Everyone is familiar with affirmations. These are positive statements that you repeat to yourself each day. Affirmations can be powerful, but they must be used correctly:

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Avoid affirmations that are clearly untrue. Your subconscious is flexible, but it’s not willing to seriously consider the ridiculous. Repeating, “I am a billionaire,” is too factually untrue to be accepted by your subconscious. “My financial situation is improving rapidly” is easier to swallow.

Use imagery and emotions to really sell it. See yourself as thin, financially successful, or selling your first novel. Generate the same emotion you would have in that situation.

Repeat your affirmations 3 sessions per day for 5-10 minutes each. Right before falling asleep, right after awakening, and any opportune time during the day are ideal times. For example, if you want to strengthen your confidence, repeat the affirmations when you’re feeling self-doubt.

2. Subliminal technology. There is software available that flashes subliminal messages on your computer screen. These programs can run all day long without your awareness. You can use the affirmations included with the software or write your own.

There are also audio programs with positive messages embedded in the music beyond your ability to consciously recognize.

There’s a lot of controversy surrounding the usefulness of these programs. Since so many are available for free, there’s no harm in giving them a try for a month. See what happens.

3. Hypnosis. You’ve been hypnotized many times. You probably just didn’t view it as hypnosis. When you’re totally engrossed in a book or movie, you’re hypnotized.

Hypnosis is just a state of intense concentration with a reduced awareness of what is happening in your immediate environment. In this state, you’re more suggestible. In other words, it’s easier to influence you or to change your mind.

There are many books, audio programs, and videos that utilize hypnotic techniques. Many people find these highly effective, while others seem less impressed. Again, give it a try and determine if it’s worth your time.

4. Meditation. Meditation is a great way of concentrating your focus. Meditation creates a mental state that opens the mind to new ideas. Meditation can be learned quite effectively from books and videos. It does require practice to become skilled, so this isn’t a quick fix.

5. Visualization. If you’re good at visualizing, you can convince your subconscious of nearly anything. A convincing visualization is viewed by your subconscious as an actual experience. For example, if you visualize yourself giving successful speeches, your subconscious will become convinced this is a skill you possess.

Again, the best time to use this process is right before falling asleep and upon awakening in the morning. Visualizing is easier and more effective at those times.

We are only aware of a tiny portion of what our brain is doing at any moment.

Our brains are dealing with far too much information for our conscious mind to process. The brain is controlling body temperature, blood pressure, pulse, digestion, concentrations of various salts, neurotransmitters, hormones, and far more sensory data than we’re aware of.

The same is true for our behavior. In theory, the subconscious mind controls 95% of our behavior. It only makes sense to address this 95%. There are several ways to program the subconscious. Pick one and see what you can accomplish!

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Affirmation: I am more than enough

Affirmation: I am more than enough

Check out this week’s affirmation: I am more than enough

Have you wondered where your internalized message of “I’m not good enough” comes from? Do you feel you give life your best, work hard, try hard, but still can’t give yourself credit?

Are you constantly beating yourself up and thinking that somehow you should be more, do more, be better, and you don’t measure up in your own mind? Affirmation: I am more than enough

Affirmation: I am more than enough.

I am enough just as I am. In fact, I am more than enough. I am good enough to deserve everything I desire. I am enough in every way.

I am deserving of love, because I am more than enough. I am a lovable person. I am loved just as I am. I receive all the attention and affection I need and expect to do so long into the future.

I am deserving of financial abundance, because I am more than enough. I provide so much value to the world that I deserve to receive abundance in return. I give, so I deserve to receive. Affirmation: I am more than enough

I am deserving of happiness and peace, because I am more than enough. I am happy, relaxed, and at peace. I expect my life to be a joyous journey. I am living a blessed life.

I am constantly learning. I want to increase my skills and utilize my talents, but I know that I am always enough as I am.

Today, I accept that I am more than enough in every way, just as I am. I am living my life to the fullest. I am comfortable with my place in the world. I accept that I am more than enough. Affirmation: I am more than enough

Self-Reflection Questions:

  • Do I feel inadequate in any part of my life? If so, why do I feel that way?
  • If I chose to believe that I am enough, what would I do that I am currently not doing?
  • How can I enhance my confidence and self-esteem so that I can finally realize that I am more than enough? Affirmation: I am more than enough

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